Some remodels start with a Pinterest board. One of mine started with saying goodbye to a bathtub.
Right now I'm working on two primary bathroom remodels that could almost be twins. Both bathrooms were built in the 80s, and both still have the features to prove it. Over the next three months, I'm going to take you along from the very first planning meeting to the final reveal, snags and all.
One of these bathrooms is especially close to my heart. It belongs to my sister, Maria, and her husband, Mike, and it's in the house that once belonged to our parents.
When our father became ill, we had a walk-in tub installed in the primary bathroom so he could bathe safely and comfortably. It did exactly what we needed it to do at the time. But it's been more than six years since we lost both of our parents, and that tub has sat unused ever since. It was a reminder of a hard season, and it no longer fit the way Maria and Mike live.
So when we started planning the remodel, the tub was the first thing to go. We didn't want it to end up in a landfill, so we posted it on Facebook, hoping it might help someone who truly needed it. It went to an Air Force veteran with arthritis who had been searching for exactly this kind of tub. Watching it leave that day, I think we all felt that our dad would have loved knowing it was going to someone who needed it as much as he once did.
That tub taught me something I see in almost every remodel: a bathroom's purpose changes as our lives change. Sometimes the reason to remodel isn't that a room is ugly or outdated. It's that the room was built for a chapter of life that has ended, and it's time to make it fit the one you're living now.
Does Your Bathroom Have These?
If your primary bathroom was built or last updated in the 80s or 90s, see how many of these look familiar:
- A corner garden tub, often with jets, that mostly holds towels and dust
- A cultured marble vanity top with a molded-in sink
- Polished brass faucets, towel bars, and shower frames
- A strip of round "Hollywood" bulbs above a wall-to-wall mirror
- Almond, pink, or mauve tile (sometimes all three)
- Oak cabinets with an orangey finish
- Glass block walls or windows
- A small, dark shower stall squeezed in next to that big tub
- Wallpaper borders, or even carpet near the toilet
Checked three or more? You're in good company. Your bathroom isn't a lost cause, it's a room with good bones waiting for its next chapter.
The Before: A Bathroom Frozen in Time
The walk-in tub served our dad well when he needed it most. Today it takes up a big part of the room, and it was time for it to help someone new.
This bathroom came with a few quirks: soffits that lower the ceiling (see above the vanity) and a door to a private garden that eats into precious space. But it also came with a gift, three windows that fill the room with natural light
Natural light in the shower? Yes, please. But this window was hiding a secret we'll reveal in Part 2.
Blue tile, white cabinets, and forty years of mornings. This original vanity had definitely earned its retirement
Refresh or Full Remodel? How to Decide
Not every dated bathroom needs to be torn down to the studs. Sometimes new paint, lighting, hardware, and a vanity are enough to make a room feel like yours again. Other times, a refresh would just be putting lipstick on a problem. Before I recommend either one, I sit down with my clients and ask a few questions.
How long do you plan to stay in your home? If you're selling in a year or two, a smart refresh can go a long way. If you plan to stay for many years, it usually makes more sense to invest in a remodel you'll enjoy every day.
Is the problem how it looks or how it works? If you love the layout but hate the colors, a refresh may be all you need. But if the shower is cramped, the storage doesn't work, or you're stepping around a tub nobody uses, new finishes won't fix that. Those are layout problems, and layout problems call for a remodel.
Who uses this bathroom, now and in the future? This is the question that surprises people most. Think about how you live today and how you'll want to live in ten years. A curbless walk-in shower, good lighting, and a comfortable vanity height are features that look beautiful now and make life easier later.
What's happening behind the walls? Here in Central Florida, humidity is hard on older bathrooms. Soft spots in the floor, loose tile, stains on the ceiling, or a musty smell that never quite goes away can all point to water damage or poor ventilation. If those problems are hiding underneath, a cosmetic update will only cover them up for a while.
For both of the bathrooms I'm working on now, the answer was clear. Each had a big tub that no one used, a shower that felt like an afterthought, and finishes that hadn't been touched in decades. The bones of each room were good, but the layouts no longer fit the people living there. That made both of them full remodels.
If you're not sure which camp your bathroom falls into, that's exactly what a first walkthrough is for. I'd much rather help you spend wisely on a refresh than talk you into more than you need.
How I Plan a Primary Bathroom Remodel
The most important work on a remodel happens before anyone picks up a hammer. A well-planned project runs more smoothly, stays closer to budget, and gives you a room you'll love for years. Here's how I approach it.
1. Listen first. Every project starts with a walkthrough and a conversation. I want to know how you use the room on a typical morning, what drives you crazy about it, and what you've always wished it had. Some of my best design ideas come from a client's offhand comment about where they wish they could set down their coffee.
2. Measure and look closely. I measure everything and take note of where the plumbing, electrical, windows, and doors sit today. I also look for clues about what might be hiding behind the tile, because it's much better to plan for surprises than to be caught off guard by them.
3. Rethink the layout. This is where the magic happens. In older primary baths, the biggest opportunity is often the space taken up by a tub no one uses. Removing it can make room for a spacious walk-in shower, more storage, or a better vanity arrangement. In Maria and Mike's bathroom, taking out the walk-in tub freed up the space we needed to rethink the whole room. Moving plumbing and electrical adds cost, so I only recommend it when it truly makes the room work better.
4. Make every selection before demolition. Tile, vanity, countertops, plumbing fixtures, lighting, mirrors, hardware, paint colors: I finalize all of it before the old bathroom comes out. This is one of the biggest differences a designer makes. When decisions are made in the middle of construction, they're rushed, and rushed decisions are how people end up with tile they don't love.
5. Order early. Some items, like custom vanities, specialty tile, and shower glass, can take weeks to arrive. Ordering ahead means your crew isn't standing around waiting, and your bathroom isn't out of commission any longer than it needs to be.
6. Line up the right team. A primary bath remodel usually involves a general contractor, plumber, electrician, tile setter, and glass installer. Getting the schedule right, and making sure the proper permits are pulled, keeps everything moving in the right order.
7. Set realistic expectations. A full primary bath remodel usually takes several weeks, often two months or more from demolition to the finishing touches. I'd rather give you an honest timeline up front than a hopeful one that slips.
What Does a Primary Bathroom Remodel Cost?
This is the question everyone wants answered first, and the honest answer is that it depends on how much of the room you're changing. In the Orlando area, bathroom projects generally fall into three tiers:
Cosmetic refresh: about $3,500 to $10,000. New paint, hardware, lighting, a replacement vanity, and new fixtures, with the plumbing staying right where it is.
Mid-range update: about $15,000 to $30,000. New tile, an updated vanity and countertop, new lighting, and often a tub-to-shower conversion.
Full primary bathroom remodel: about $25,000 and up. A complete gut renovation with a new layout, a walk-in shower, custom cabinetry, and finishes chosen just for you. Projects that move plumbing or use high-end materials land toward the upper end.
What drives the cost? Layout changes are the biggest factor. Keeping your toilet, shower, and sinks where they are saves money, while moving plumbing and electrical adds labor and permits. Tile is the next big one, since both the material and the installation can vary widely. Custom cabinetry and shower glass round out the list.
Plan for a cushion. In older homes, it's common to find outdated plumbing, old wiring, or hidden water damage once the walls are open. I always recommend setting aside 10 to 20 percent of your budget for surprises. If you don't need it, wonderful. If you do, you'll be glad it's there. (And yes, we found a few surprises of our own. More on that next month!)
Where to Splurge, Where to Save
Worth the splurge:
Waterproofing and what's behind the walls. You'll never see it, but it protects everything you do see.
The shower. It's the part of the room you use every single day.
Ventilation. In Florida's humidity, a good exhaust fan is not optional.
A quality vanity. Drawers and doors take a beating, and cheap ones show it fast.
Smart places to save:
Keep the plumbing where it is, if the layout already works.
Use statement tile in small doses, such as a shower niche or accent wall, and pair it with a simpler field tile.
Mirrors and light fixtures come in beautiful, affordable options.
Standard sizes for vanities and shower glass instead of custom whenever possible.
The Realtor's Take
As both a designer and a realtor, I see primary bathrooms from two sides. Here's what I tell homeowners:
Buyers notice the primary bath. Here in Central Florida, buyers expect a spacious walk-in shower, good lighting, plenty of storage, and a double vanity when space allows. A dated primary bath is one of the first things buyers mentally add to their "fix it" list, and they usually overestimate the cost.
Timeless beats trendy. If you might sell within a few years, choose finishes with broad appeal. Save the bold choices for paint and accessories, which are easy to change.
Keep your paperwork. Make sure your contractor pulls the proper permits, and save your permits, receipts, and warranties. In Florida, larger projects also require a Notice of Commencement to be recorded before work begins. Having everything in order makes a big difference when it's time to sell.
Coming Next Month: When the Walls Came Down
Planning is the calm before the storm. In October, I'll take you inside a bathroom remodel during construction: the demolition, the surprises we found behind the walls, and how we solved the problems no one saw coming. Every remodel has a few snags, and I'll share ours honestly, so you'll know what to expect when it's your turn.
Is Your Bathroom Ready for Its Next Chapter?
Whether you're dreaming of a full remodel or wondering if a simple refresh will do, I'd love to walk through your space with you and help you make a plan that fits your home, your life, and your budget.
Let's Talk About Your Bathroom